You have to dig deep where you have never dug from before.. that is how you begin to heal…so I am taking it as that. I am now the wife of a cab driver. A work for over 12 hours, six days a week, barely get to see him except when we are in bed and dead to the world but our extra expenses are taken cared of cab driver. I know it sounds like I am complaining, and in a way I am , but damn over 12 hours? Really? He is a hard working man.. but it feels like we are living separate lives. Am I wrong for thinking that?