The rules are different now. He’s no longer my best friend, he’s gone to being a acquaintance. His birthday was two days ago, and even though I sent him a text for his birthday, I didn’t call until today. Only to find him distant and in a hurry to get off the phone to order lunch. Almost like he didn’t want to get caught taking to me. Like his jealous wife.He’s now someone else’s man, almost no longer my friend.. He’s married now.. And even though I was the one to let him go, it still hurts to see him this way. A twenty year friendship now seems dry and distant. It’s strange though, I still get chills when I talk to him. If he’s my ex, why is this happening?